One of the most intriguing things I discovered through my dissertation research was the different ways the women I interviewed played MMORPGs.* It wasn’t a total surprise that not all of them were raiders, or engaged in end-game content or high-level dungeons. I knew there were plenty of people that looked at MMOs as less solitary versions of “sandbox” games; those players who collect pets or level multiple alts, or who find role playing and creating back stories for their characters the most compelling reasons to enter the world.
This, of course, forced me to consider my own gaming approach. My gaming history, which I discuss in the first chapter of my dissertation in greater length, started with a role playing game: Zork. I spent hours exploring the underground empire, mapping and losing my way, and fighting Grues. But I never felt compelled to “finish” the game. I never had that drive to know the end of the story or finish the game content.
As I reflect on this now, I can see this idea through much of the gaming that I did later, although there were a few exceptions. I vividly remember finishing Myst, feeling so powerful knowing I had completed even the most difficult puzzles, and then waiting with baited breath as Riven came out. Even the later versions of Zork held the same appeal for me, and again I enjoyed getting to the end of the game.
When I started playing World of Warcraft, about six months before I started my Ph.D. program, I didn’t really understand the basic ideas behind any kind of end goal. It was quite by accident that I ran my first dungeon, having been asked by someone else playing in the same zone to join a group running the Deadmines. I remember feeling nervous as we entered, worried that I would fail the group since I knew my tanking skills were less than stellar.
Somehow that nervous feeling about being in a group, being relied upon to play well, never left me and colored my experience of all MMOs. Through the interviews, I listened to many tales of epic wins and great success. A clear theme through the interviews was the power almost all the players felt within the game, regardless of what kind of play they engaged in.
But it left me wondering what it might be like to be in a group that completed an epic raid, 25 people working together to the same end goal. What would that experience be like? How would I feel? Could I experience that same sense of power I had when I finished a game on my own? Would it be more or less intense because I had to play with other people?
After months of playing, of learning my class (warlock) more carefully, of reading and researching and watching videos of other people play, and running endless versions of the same dungeons trying to get that one, last piece of gear I needed to up my item level, I finally got the chance to run a 25 person raid and take down Deathwing, the epic bad guy in the latest expansion of the game (Cataclysm). It wasn’t pretty; many of the group, formed with the new raid finder within days of its release, were new to the raid and didn’t know the mechanics. It took several wipes (where all 25 of us died) to finally reach the end.
It was, however, an amazing rush. To see the progress the group made as a whole, even as we were being resurrected back from our dead bodies, there was sense that we were learning how to work as a unit. There were a few people easily frustrated at the failures but just as many making jokes about how at least many of us got a new achievement when we died, most importantly “Stood in the Fire.”
I finished this raid with two guild mates, friends that I often game with, and it took a while for all three of us to come to this revelation. Yes, it was madness, yes running a raid with the raid finder can be grueling, but look at what we just did. We killed Deathwing. We stood in the fire. Did we get burned? Yes, but it was so worth it.
Lots of people these days talk about how gamers are great problem solvers and there is plenty of evidence to back that up. Fewer people talk about the emotional aspects of gaming; perhaps, because they are less easy to quantify and measure. Facing my fear in game, that sense of possibly letting the group down or being deemed “not good enough” changed how I see myself and reaffirmed that I am able, online and offline, to face my fears.
* I discuss the categories of gamers I discovered and some of my other findings in the second episode of my new podcast.
Regina is a gamer, writer, teacher, and podcaster living in the Pacific Northwest. She completed her Ph.D. in 2011 from Washington State University in Vancouver and continues to teach there part time. Regina’s research interests focus on women and technology, and her dissertation discusses female gamers and identity in digital role playing games. A lifelong geek and technology enthusiast, Regina recently started a Girls Who Code club in support of their mission to close the gender gap in technology.
To continue the conversations about gender and gaming that Regina started during her research, she started a podcast called Game on Girl. Called the “NPR of game podcasts” by Chris Brown of The Married Gamers, the podcast features women involved in the game industry, and tackles some of the complicated issues in the gaming community. Season 2 began in the spring of 2018 and will premiere new episodes monthly.